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Friday, September 7, 2018

A Little Post About Vacation

Oh, but I think a part of me will always long for my childhood home.

A part of my heart belongs there. And it makes me ache to think about it and know that I will never be completely fulfilled ... Yet that reminds me another reason why heaven will be so precious!

Ah. Another trip to the west coast. I adore these trips. And never quite ready to leave!

I saw my older brother! <3 My aunt and uncle and cousins who I lived with once (my second family!!). My grandparents. Some more aunts and uncles and cousins from all over the country (they came for the wedding of my uncle). Dear friends. And countless other relatives. *winks*

I went kayaking. Which was like the best experience ever! Summer at its finest. Floating down the river beneath the towering pine trees. Oh, it was beautiful. And invigorating. And just simply lovely. I couldn't help thinking of the people who must have canoed down that river years ago ... native Americans? Early settlers? I love my "home"!

Right before kayaking, I was swimming with my cousins, sister, and aunt. That was really fun, too! The water was so cold! But once I actually ducked under, I quickly warmed up. We swam out to giant, floating logs and sat on them. I didn't get any pictures of this day, but it was so wonderful.

And the wedding. Simply beautiful. I was so honored and blessed to attend! Such a fun time with family.

Staying at Grandma and Grandpa's house.
Getting to know my lovely, new aunt. (who's my age)
Helping my cousin set up a blog.
Shopping trips.
Going out to eat.
Reconnecting with my childhood best friend and talking about all manner of things. ^_^
Crazy scavenger hunt on the "last night out".
Sitting in my older brother's room and talking with him and my mom.
Laughing.
Playing games.
Hanging out with fun people.
Riding in my older brother's cool car and listening to cool music. *smiles*
Refreshing walks.
Talking with my aunt (my second mom *winks*)
Picking blackberries and thimble berries.
Hiking.
Swimming.
Kayaking.
Long conversations with LaKaysha.
Birthdays.
Wedding.
Exploring and adventuring with older brother, mom, and the rest of the siblings.
Washing Grandpa and Grandma's white fence with all the cousins.
Hanging out with all the family.
Holding babies.  (My aunt's baby and my friend's baby)
Staying at aunt & uncle's I used to live with. (I felt a little nostalgic)

Oh. All the adventures. Can't wait until the next trip! *winks*

Here are a couple pictures ... (I was so excited to have a decent camera on my phone, finally. But it turns I don't take very many pictures anyway.)


At the airport. I felt so sick on the first flight. 'Twas not fun. Not fun at all.



Costco shopping trip! *grins* We packed the car quite full of groceries!


Because what's better than natural sour gummy worms? *heart eyes*


Staying at Grandma's house


Love waterfalls!




Time to climb this rock. We didn't go up that way. *winks*



Hiking with all the family


I was totally blessed to get together with LaKaysha three or four times! I love hanging out with that girl! We can just talk on for hours and have great conversations! It was good to share from my heart with her. <33 One day we took a nice walk and then went out and got smoothies. Mine was called west coast berry or something.


Going home. :'(

So many people to miss!


So talk to me, y'all!

WHERE DO YOU LOVE TO VACATION?

WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE MEMORY FROM THIS SUMMER?

DO YOU GET SICK ON AIRPLANES?

HAVE YOU BEEN TO A WEDDING RECENTLY?

DO YOU LIKE KAYAKING?

SOUR GUMMY WORMS?? *winks*

May God bless your weekend!

Tuesday, February 20, 2018

Highlights from My First Vacation of 2018

Hi, readers! Today is just going to be a quick post talking about highlights from my recent trip!


(picture found on pixabay.com)

Beautiful weather, family, laughter, and good food! ^_^

~ Spending time with my dear older brother! Us three oldest kids had some great, lovely times together this trip. Driving around, finding scenic views. Going out to eat. Listening to songs from our childhood. Talking about life and hopes and passions. Laughing. Watching movies. Shopping for food for our little Superbowl party. Checking out some sweet Corvettes (and sitting in them, just for fun. *winks*)


(Siblings are so special. I have so much love in my heart for each of mine!)

~ Being involved with & attending a sweet friend's wedding. She'd shared with me, in the past, some about her heart's desire to get married ... so I almost came to tears watching her readying herself as a bride! <3 It was a beautiful and God-honoring wedding and I enjoyed spending time with the bride and her family!



~ Adventures outside. Crisp, fresh, cool air. Beautiful trees and mountains. Sun. God's wondrous creation embracing me. I come alive.

~ Going out to lunch with LaKaysha. One of the few people who understands me on a soul-deep level, I think! (Perhaps she's an INFJ like myself?) She is such a precious soul and I was blessed with the chance to fellowship with her!

~ Quiet time with God and writing letters to my future husband. Quiet time! Praying and spending time in the Word. Rejoicing in the Lord.
And then writing letters to my nameless man. (hehe) I enjoy writing and, if I marry someday, my hope is that these letters will make my husband feel loved!



~ Hanging out with friends, playing games, and laughing. Fellowship, connection, and community! Ah! I loved hanging out with groups of younger people, but it was also super delightful to get to hang out with people more my own age/in the same stage of life as me.

~ Meeting new peopleAlways a great thing—especially if you connect on a deep level. Kindred spirits! *winks*

~ Having fun with cousins, aunt & uncle, and grandpa, whom I treasure in my heart. (Missed my grandma! But perhaps I'll see her later this year!)

~ Eating pizza for the first time in forever! Gluten-free and dairy-free pizza, guys. It's the best. =D


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So there are a couple highlights. *smiles*

What did your January look like? What did you do? What did you learn? Highlights? What are you up to now? Comment below and let me know how life is!



I thank God, whom I serve with a pure conscience, as my forefathers did, as without ceasing I remember you in my prayers night and day, greatly desiring to see you, being mindful of your tears, that I may be filled with joy, when I call to remembrance the genuine faith that is in you, which dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice, and I am persuaded is in you also. Therefore I remind you to stir up the gift of God which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

Monday, May 1, 2017

Florida Beaches ... 2017

I went to Florida for the very first time in my life, this year of 2017. And such an exciting adventure it was!


Florida just seems like the ideal vacation spot, what with the magnificent ocean shores and overall tropical feel. So when two of my younger sisters and I found cheap tickets there, I was thrilled! A spontaneous sisters trip! ^_^

I'm no fan of flying (in fact, it generally terrifies me), but I mustered up the courage - because one can't have adventures if one doesn't take chances.

I made a big list and started packing here and there a week ahead of time. And I fussed at my sisters quite a bit, haha. We even went to Walmart and Goodwill and I found sunglasses, two summer shirts, a swimming suit, and beaded sandals. I think that's when I really started getting excited for this trip.

The day finally arrived! We made the drive to the airport and checked in our suitcases. Said goodbye to the family. And entered the security check line. Always a bit stressful for me as I frantically try to get everything out and into the bins that needs to be! We got through alright, found our gate, and waited the half hour before we began to board.

Thankfully, the flying was relatively uneventful!

We arrived in Florida at nightfall, and our relatives picked us up from the airport. As we drove to the condo, I surveyed the city life around us, delighting in all the palm trees! *grins*

It was the next day that we went to the beach.

Oh, the ocean. I don't think I could ever get tired of it.

"Foamy waves and endless blue sea. It awakens something in me, like one can catch a glimpse of God, heaven, and perfection in such vastness."
- Florida Journal 2017

I loved the sandy beaches and walking through the shallow water in my red swimming suit cover-up, searching for unique shells. It's so peaceful, somehow.


Back at the condo, I enjoyed journaling on the back patio, where a balmy breeze rustled through the leaves of palm trees. You can't beat the tropical air, my friends!

"Looking forward to more sun and waves. And chatting. And quiet time ..."
- Florida Journal 2017

Squishing in a room with two sisters and two cousins was fun! We shared two closets, a bathroom, and some dresser drawers. It was all cozy and comfortable, in my opinion. ^_^

I was able to visit with my great grandma, whom I only really remember seeing when I was a little girl. She's such a sweet little lady. Spunky and sweet! *grins* And full of giggles. I had such a good time listening to her stories and laughing with her.
She's gone through a whole lot in her life, but she's strong and so sweet to all of us. It was a blessing to see her. <3

As well as my dear cousins and aunt & uncle, and great aunt and her daughter! So many relatives! I loved seeing them all and hope I can see them again soon!

We went to a simple and lovely Good Friday service, as well as Easter Sunday service.

Played quite a few games of Dutch Blitz and Kings & Queens. It's always satisfying to go from slave to king. *grins and winks* Watched "Frozen". Talked ...

And swam! There's a pool right by the condo, which was quite pleasant. Good for cooling down and relaxing, or a nice bit of exercise.

"I'm sitting at the pool in the warm sun. [My cousins] are sunbathing on lounges next to me. A small plane flies overhead. [My sister] is out here also, reading All In Good Time by Maureen Lang."
- Florida Journal 2017

There's also a nice big lake nearby to walk around. But not to swim in! Too many alligators! There are also lots of different birds, big turtles, and iguanas.

Boogie boarding was a new adventure I tried. Catching the ocean waves and riding them to shore! It took me awhile to get the hang of it ... and in that while I got lots of salt water up my nose and whatnot ... but once you ride a few waves, it's so fun!

"It was overcast and a little sprinkly at the beach last night. But the water was quite warm once you got in. The waves were pretty high - it's fun and slightly scary at the same time. I love laying over the boogie board and just floating over the waves. So peaceful yet exciting."
- Florida Journal 2017

President Trump was at his estate in Florida, Mar-a-Lago, so there were lots of policemen and security stuff around. It was all quite interesting, and even a bit exciting, to be honest. I saw the president planes, and coast guard boats with guns guarding the shore side of Mara-a-Lago.

I was able to go on a boat ride through part of the Everglades, a swampy area. It was enjoyable and interesting seeing birds, alligators, and turtles. And learning about the many anacondas and Melaleuca Trees that are around!

We went to a different beach that day. It had more of the "beachy" feel. So lovely. One of my sisters and I did photo shoots of each other while walking along the beach. Just fun. ^_^ A really refreshing day!

(matching with this lovely lady!)

And we saw a cute, little crab! It scuttled sideways across the sand, probably just under the size of a quarter.

"Sitting here watching Tangled and sipping cool lemonade. Flynn Ryder and Maximus are hilarious! And Rapunzel is so delightful.
We went to the beach for a short while this morning. It was windy and overcast, with some sprinkles, so we just collected shells for awhile before leaving."
- Florida Journal 2017

We went to a fabulous restaurant where I had broiled fish, fries, and coleslaw. A huge plate of it all. And it was SO good! I'd only eaten homemade chocolate oatmeal that morning, so I was starving, and it certainly filled me up! *smiles*

Swam some more. And laid in the sun for awhile. I'd started getting a little bit of color by then! I don't tan easily, but I was healthy-looking ... sun-kissed! ^_^ Good thing for my mom's homemade sunscreen (made with carrot oil and other things). It felt great on my skin, is good for the skin, and prevented sunburn!


One day we all headed to the Lion Country Safari. That was certainly a neat experience! Lots to do, and lots of interesting and amazing animals to see! I think the baby monkeys were my favorite.
Can't you all just see me, dressed up in a woman pirate's garb with a cute monkey on my shoulder, sailing the ocean waves? Yeah ... well it's a fun daydream when you see those lively little monkeys. *grins*

"I've decided that I love giraffes. They look very gentle and pretty with big eyes, long necks and legs, and unique heads."
- Florida Journal 2017

"We pet goats and fed pretty, bright, little birds. Had some fun in the pedal boats. Stood under the misters a lot to cool off. And went down a big slide. The giant turtles were really cool. And zebras are just great."
- Florida Journal 2017

Another fun thing I did was dress up and toured this part of Florida's town/city life. It was delightful! Not only do I like dressing up, but I also enjoy being around all the people, seeing the sights and sounds.
We stopped for ice-cream. I got cherry and mango Italian Ice ... no diary. It tasted a lot like a slushie, but at least it had fruit chunks. Still, the thought of so much sugar and food coloring started to bother me. Haha!

"It was so fun walking in town yesterday! So many unique shops and interesting people. And lots of palm trees. The evening was perfect! Balmy and warm, but a nice breeze and no sun scorching your face."
- Florida Journal 2017

I visited with my great grandma and great aunt more. It's so pleasant to just sit and listen to them talk and tell stories.

"We visited for quite awhile, having chocolate cake and lots of laughter."
- Florida Journal 2017

Of course, being me, I started putting my things together a day or two before we were supposed to leave. It helps me enjoy myself more on my last days of vacation, and not stress!

"This morning I ate breakfast outside. Chex cereal and homemade granola. I like the look of the yellow condo walls around the patio. Also, all the palm trees and other unique trees outside the white fence are lovely. Greenery climbs up the fence, some flowers blooming. This morning, I saw two lizards scurrying around on the fence. Anyway, it was nice and cool, with a breeze. And quiet. So peaceful. I could get used to tropical mornings."
- Florida Journal 2017

Went to the ocean again and found a lot of pieces of pretty shells. There was a threat of sea lice, so I just waded a little, but mostly walked up and down the seashore in my swimming suit and cover-up, singing and thinking.

"It's so easy to feel quiet belief and awe and peace by the ocean."
- Florida Journal 2017

I did end up being quite burnt after that day at the ocean and swimming at the pool. But it only lasted a few days, before the painfulness went away. The redness is mostly gone too, in exchange for some nice color. *smiles* I did lots of lavender spray, used the gel from an aloe vera plant my aunt bought, and even plastered on apple cider vinegar and coconut oil.

And I took a sauna (which is supposed to be helpful with sunburn) and had a late night swim. That was actually quite a fun night, despite being burnt and slightly stressed about other things. I do really enjoy saunas. Something about it ...

"A few of us stayed out until about 10:40-ish. Then we rinsed off with the outside shower by the pool and went inside. Ate some grapefruit and cereal, and went to bed."
- Florida Journal 2017

I went to see the sunrise! And then out to that same restaurant for breakfast, this time getting an omelette filled with chunks of ham, green pepper, and onion, hash browns, a slice of cantaloupe and grapefruit, as well as an additional bowl of fruit. So yummy!



Then ... I took a two-hour nap. Sunrise mornings are too much for me, haha. That rest was blissful.

"Now I'm sitting here in my polka-dot, black and red dancing dress (*winks*) and yes, journaling. Perhaps I should go inside and eat lunch."
- Florida Journal 2017


We went walking around again. Oh, did I mention the beautiful houses? So many different styles! It was neat to see it all, and I kept wondering what it would be like to live in them! With their immaculate courtyards, high balconies, and many rooms.
I also wondered time and again what people thought of me, prancing around their part of town in my $3 Goodwill dress (embellished with red yarn) ... Haha! Oh well, it's a nice dress and I love it and I got a good deal, which is always a nice thing in my book. ^_^

"In the wealthy part of town, the houses are wondrously glamorous and the shops are well beyond my price range."
- Florida Journal 2017

Despite the prices that seemed outrageous to me, the stores were intriguing, and the fashion was fun to look at! There was also a beautiful, little courtyard tucked in there, with blooming roses twining up a white staircase afar off! It was amazing!

We laughed and joked with our relatives on our last day in Florida. Ate a yummy meal. Went out to ice-cream and shopping. I picked up veggie chips and fruit snacks for the trip home.

At the airport, one of the security people, a young lady, asked my two younger sisters and I if we were all thirteen. I have to admit, I was a little insulted. That's a little off, you know! I'm an adult now! Haha. Well, I've gotten it more than once. May as well get used to it. *winks*


"We are on the plane, flying through the air. Definitely not my favorite thing to do, but at least I have my anti-nausea wristbands and some veggie chips!" 

- Florida Journal 2017

But yes. It was a lovely time, and my sisters and I were sooo blessed to have gotten in such a special vacation! I loved Florida. I loved the beaches. I loved the ocean waves and the sandy shores and the balmy air. It was absolutely beautiful.

"We're descending. Gone are the amazing tropics. It's much cooler here. And windy, perhaps? The ride is getting a little bumpy. Home sweet home. It's good to be back, but I will miss the slightly exotic, summer-ness of [the beach life].
So long, Florida. It's been fabulous! <3" 
- Florida Journal 2017

Tuesday, February 28, 2017

"A Quiet Extrovert"

I like people. I'm an introvert—oftentimes insecure and socially awkward. Have a hard time talking in front of crowds or being the center of attention in general. But ...

I love meeting new people.

I long to make new friends.

I adore big gatherings—where I'm surrounded by people (and at least one trusted friend) but am not pressured to be involved. I can visit at my own pace.

I am thrilled when I talk to random people in town; it makes life feel interesting and full of hope.

I thrive on devoted relationships and deep conversations.


I've done quite a few personality tests, one of which is found at 16personalities.com. There I was labeled "TheAdvocate", an INFJ personality. An introvert. But interestingly enough, people with this personality type are often known as "quiet extroverted types".

I'm very passionate about books, writing, and literary characters; and I need my own space sometimes, but ... I feel I will wither up and die inside without real companionship and community.


While living on the west coast, a distant cousin approached me wanting to form a friendship. I was actually a little amazed that she wanted to get to know me; and delighted, of course! We got together several times and talked easily, having lovely times. Even though I think we were both pretty nervous to meet each other in person!
Later, I met one of her nieces at a young people’s event. We talked the whole evening about blogging, writing, and different topics—and I thoroughly enjoyed myself!
Then I met three more of her nieces (we’re all around the same age, more or less) and had an absolutely amazing time visiting with them.
I was surprised and quite happy to find out how much I had in common with all five young ladies, and it was just so fun to get to know them and start forming friendships. I had so missed that companionship—having people who actually understood certain trials you were going through, struggles you faced, or quirks you just thought no one else could relate to! *smiles*


Another moment that stood out to me while living on the west coast was when another one of my cousins quoted to me from one of my favorite books (one of her favorites too!), when I was sick. I always find myself remembering that particular happening because it felt very special to me, what with how important books are to me. For me, it was a moment of true connection and friendship. ^_^ Peoples, when you connect with me through books, it means a lot. *smiles*


Currently, I’m back at my family’s house with my parents and siblings. I do miss my older brother, relatives, and new friends on the west coast, but it feels right to be where I am at this time.
  • Investing in the lives of my six younger sisters & brothers.
  • Talking and spending quality time with my mom.
  • Devoting time to my writing project.


But I struggled for many weeks, wondering about finding that companionship outside my family here. And guess what? I felt the faithfulness of God last Saturday when my mom, sister, and I met with another mom and her oldest daughter (from my family’s homeschool group). We sat at Chick-fil-A eating waffle fries and drinking half-unsweetened-tea-half-lemonade (*wink*), and talking for hours. Talking about books, and other such things, mind you. *grins* After that visit, I felt more refreshed and hopeful than I had in a long time.

And, I’m planning to go to Bible study at my family’s church for the first time. I’m really excited!

So what is the point of this post? Well, I suppose to just give you a little glimpse into my life, and thoughts, and feelings.

And let you know that I love to connect with you! Having a blog has been such a blessing, in that I get to bond a little bit with so many readers and writers and other such folk!

(Share my blog with others! *smiles*)

So, I am an introvert—but I love people. Companionship means everything to me.